A softer way to sit: My thoughts on Connected Riding
The Book: Connected Riding by Peggy Cummings
The Vibe: Biomechanics meet empathy
I’ll be honest—sometimes traditional riding instructions just made me feel stiffer. I chose this little book as my first review because it offered something different: a way to ride that feels like restoration rather than just "work."
Peggy Cummings focuses on this beautiful concept of "Neutral Posture". Instead of forcing a frame or "holding" the horse together, she talks about releasing our own bracing patterns first. It’s a humble reminder that often, the tension we feel in our horses actually starts in our own bodies.
What I loved:
• The "Melt": She describes a "meet and melt" energy that is all about softness.
• The Relief: It teaches you to stop "holding" and start carrying your own weight, which is a huge relief for the horse's back.
• The Connection: It’s not about mechanics; it’s about synchronizing with your horse so you move with them, not against them.
For anyone who wants to support their horse's longevity and comfort, this is a gem. It reminds us that good riding is really just good care.